How To Love

Love is both an action and a feeling. The action of love generates a blissful feeling caused by that of love. When the action stops, the blissful feeling is replaced with pain. There is a similar feeling called lust which may be confused with love. You need to decipher between the two in order to have a healthy heart. Every person is capable of great love (and its opposite, fear, which generates all painful emotions such as hate, greed and jealousy). While there are many different ways to define love, to feel love one must first love self.

First and fore most, I'm so addicted to this song and i'm sure like many women out there it can be in some way related too. I won't go to much into the topic of love because it's something I can talk about for hours and days on hand, but what I will say about this topic is, there are to many of yall using this word loosely, love and the emotions which comes with it is something to me which is dear and I personally wouldn't want to be told "LOVE YOU" because of the spur of the moment, I said I wouldn't go to much into the topic of love so I'm going to end it here. Hope you all like the look, as well as the new layout which I'm thinking about switching too. SEE YOU NEXT POST


DRESS: DeeTaleZ Dresses cashmere dress sweater black
LUGGAGE: [[SHADE THRONE]] ST SUITCASE
LEGGINGS: DeeTaleZ tights nylon black
BOOTS: MIEL FAR BOOTS - solid
HAIR: Vanity Hair::Blush HP blacks
NAILS: [MANDALA]MILKY WAY RING & NAILS/gaga black
EARRINGS: [ glow ] studio - Zebra Feathers earring
GLASSES: [BarCode] Leopard Print Optical Glasses
EYELASHES 1: [ glow ] Devilicious 00
EYELASHES 2: [ glow ] Devilicious 02
EYELASHES: [ glow ] studio - Innocent. eyelashes - intensive
NECKLACE: {CREAMSHOP}blk and gold swan necklace (NO LONGER AVAILABLE FOR SALE)
WEDDING RINGS: JCNY Engravable Wedding Rings (Dr4zz I LOVE YOU BABY :P)

Location of photo-shoot: Obsession Graphix Studio

Poses in this photo are courtesy of GIFTED POSES, owned and operated by Fashanstar Haiku (THANKS FOR YOU SUPPORT GREEDY), Graphics are courtesy of Obsession Graphix, Owned and operated by Queentoy Cyberstar and Dr4zz Resident.

DA ONE

Da One: person whom you can't see yourself without

I'M BACK YALL!!! I MADE IT TO AND FROM NY WITHOUT ANY SORT OF FROST BITE ON THE ASS OR FREEZE OF THE TOES. LOLL, I HOPE EVERYONE HAD A HAPPY HOLIDAY'S.

SO HERE WE ARE IN 2012, WOW ANOTHER YEAR GONE AND A NEW YEAR TO BREAK RESOLUTIONS LOL ISN'T THAT GRAND? ANY WHO LET'S TALK ABOUT THIS LOOK, THE SCARF WHICH IM WEARING CAME WITH A COMPLETE OUTFIT FROM SHI, WHICH I'M TOTALLY IN LOVE WITH, EVERYTHING AT SHI IS AMAZINGLY CRAFTED AND MOSTLY PRIMS SO WHEN BUYING ANYTHING FROM SHI JUST NO THAT YOU NEED TOO HAVE YOUR PRIM EDITING SKILLS ON POINT BECAUSE THEY WILL BE TESTED AS WELL AS NEEDED WITH ANY OF SHI'S GET UPS. AS YOU ALL CAN SEE AND REALIZE BY NOW THAT I AM A BIG SUCKA AND FAN FOR ITEMS WHICH ARE MODIFIABLE, WHEN A ITEM IS MODIFIABLE THE MANY DIFFERENT WAYS TO ROCK THE ITEM ARE ENDLESS, SUCH AS THIS SCARF (WHICH ORIGINALLY WAS A CREAM COLOR) AND THE BIG GREEN LOOKING MARBLE RING (WHICH WAS A SOLID WHITE PEARL LOOKING COLOR), A LOT OF THE TIMES I BUY THINGS JUST BECAUSE OF THE FACT THAT THERE MODIFIABLE AND A FEW OF THE PIECES WITH THIS OUTFIT FALLS UNDER THAT CATEGORY. AS FAR AS MY OTHER HALF OF COURSE I CAN'T TELL YOU WTH HE WAS THINKING WHEN HE GOT DRESSED, BUT I CAN TELL YALL WHAT I WAS THINKING WHEN HE WAS DONE GETTING DRESSED AND I GAVE HIM THE HEAD TO TOE LOOK, (I WANTED TO UNDRESS HIM)LOL FELLAS IDK WHAT YALL ROCKING THIS WINTER BUT IF YOU DON'T HAVE A PAIR OF BOOTS FROM HOORENBEEK AND AT LEAST ONE COAT FROM INDI DESIGNS, THEN YA SWAG ISN'T ON POINT, LOLL REAL TALK. LADIES GO GET YA DUDES RIGHT STOP LETTING EM' WALK OUT LOOKING LIKE THEY REZZED ON THE GRID 24HOURS AGO LOLL. ANYWHO BE THE JUDGE OF THE LOOK YOURSELF, AND HOPE YOU ALL HAVE A SEXUALLY PROSPEROUS NEW YEAR, LOLL






Queentoy Wears:
JEANS: !Nayar - Abby Jeans [Black] FRAYED&BLEACHED Pants
NAILS: [MANDALA]Option LONG Nails set/Basic skin nails
BANGLE: LaGyo_Hula bangle
HAIRBASE: DeeTaleZ shaved flowery
BOOTS: :: Kookie :: Enya/ Leopard
SCARF: .S H I : Head Scarf_Beige
HARNESS: .S H I :Harness_Brown
EYELASHES 1: [ glow ] Devilicious 02
EYELASHES 2: [ glow ] Devilicious 00
RING: p.c; Diamonds and Pearl Ring
EARRINGS: p.c; Oxidized Silver Hoop
TOP: {Happy} Confidence Blouse (White)

DRAZZ WEARS:
TATS: CUSTOM
BOOTS: hoorenbeek brown & green trails
CHAIN: RYCA s-link gold chain
BRACELET: RYCA cuban gold bracelet
JACKET: indi designs winter green jacket
JEANS: jacu- victor jeans
EARRINGS: RYCA- gold/diamond studs
WATCH: ryca watchgold /diamond face

Location: Toxia

Poses in this photo are courtesy of The Gifted Poses, owned and operated by Fashanstar Haiku (THANKS FOR YOUR SUPPORT)

Girls

Girls/Women: Human with whom which is born with XX chromosomes.

I am women
Empress,Daughter of Afro Caribbean roots.
Full figured,Ebony coco brown is my Exterior.
My Face oval shaped, Eyes wide,
I'd would say, made to resembling that of the moon.
Lips almond. Hair as deep as indigo, black,
which is pretty short without my weave.
Tall, I stand 5”11.

Un perfect in many ways,
I have desires to seek all within my soul,
penetrating the spirit which resides within.

Mother
I do all to provide for my seed.
I cry when the pain and struggle is too much to bear
I laugh controlling my frustrations when
Pushed to the limits by my young.
Yet I continue, transcending through this earth.
Born a Girl, but now a Woman.

Hurt
Disappointment from all directions has been a visitor
Yet I over come, and continue to live I have desires
to become that women. What woman? That women who lives
inside my dreams, the one no one but I can see.

Beautiful, graceful, powerful, secure.
I am a women of courage. Happy, motivated to challenge myself because
success is what I posses.

Born a Girl, but now a Woman.
Inspiring many, I’ve fallen at the hands of abuse in ways only few have
been informed of, but it shapes me into my transcending transformation stages to
Rise. Seen through these eyes, a bit of hate, war, rape, domestic Violence to those who could not defend themselves. Yet Tall and proud here I stand, with wisdom and words to share, born a girl, but now a woman.

AND THIS IS WHY GIRLS RULE THE WORLD.!!!

REALLY HOPE YOU ENJOYED THE POEM. AS FOR THIS LOOK, THE FUNNIEST OF SHITS HAPPENED WHEN I WAS ROCKING THIS LOOK. WHILE I WAS OUT SHOPPING IN WORLD BLACK FRIDAY, A CERTAIN SOMEONE TOOK A PIC OF ME AND POSTED IT ON FB AS A WORSE DRESSED. NOW YALL I NO THAT WHEN IT COMES TO FASHION, NOT EVERYONE, MAY LIKE THE LOOK WHICH IS BEING ROCKED, WHEN IT COMES TO ME AND MY SWAG I AM A VERY VERSATILE DRESSER. EVEN IN RL, BUT NEVER ONCE HAVE I HAD SOMEONE DISLIKE SOMETHING I HAVE ROCKED SO DAMN MUCH THAT THEY FELT THE NEED TO SNAP SHOT AWAY AND POST IT ON FB AS, "JUST A MESS." LOL I PERSONALLY CONSIDER MYSELF TO BE THAT OF FASHION, DUE TO THE FACT THAT IT IS A TRUE PASSION OF MY REAL LIFE. ANY WHO FOR LAUGHS HERE'S THE LINK TO THE POST, THANKS AGAIN FOR THE SUPPORT FROM ALL OF YOU, CHECK THE LOOK BELOW, RATE COMMENT AND SUBSCRIBE!!! SEE YOU NEXT POST!





GIRLS
BOOTS: [ h ] Patagonia
JACKET: [LeLutka]-CHARLIE jacket/dark
SCARF: [LeLutka]-IMAN scarf/gold
HAIR: booN MKT012 hair blonde
HAIRBASE: DeeTaleZ shaved flowery blonde
DRESS: Emery - Dress Roxe Striped
LASHES: HouseofFox :: WingLashes
RINGS: LaGyo_Shield rings gold/black
PANTS: PaperBag. The Prissy Skinny Smoke
EARRINGS: \/\Cult of Belgar\/\ Gemstone Cluster Earring LEFT
BELT: *COCO*_DoubleBelt_Leopard-Brown-gold
NECKLACE: [ glow ] studio - Time Goes By Necklace
WATCH: :)(: Mylove Watch (Put your picture inside the watch)
SHADES: [[SHADE THRONE]] THE WEEZY SUNGLASSES
NAILS: [MANDALA]Option LONG Nails set/Basic skin nails
BAG: [>Duffle Bag<] Louis V (thanks Jahil for fixing the bag for me) WEDDING RINGS: JCNY Engravable Wedding Rings (Dr4zz I LOVE YOU BABY :P)

Location of photo-shoot: Virtual Decay

Poses in this photo are courtesy of The Gifted Poses, owned and operated by Fashanstar Haiku (THANKS FOR YOU SUPPORT GREEDY), and Twisted Poses, owned and operated by Kitt Deluxe (THANKS A BUNCH FOR YOU SUPPORT CHICKA), Graphics are courtesy of Obsession Graphix, Owned and operated by Queentoy Cyberstar and Dr4zz Resident.

You've Officially been UpGraded *pops your collar*

So Dangerous

"DANGEROUS, IS THE FEMALE THAT CAN HURT YOU WITH OUT ACTUALLY HURTING YOU"

TODAY I'M FEELING BLUE, NAVY BLUE THAT IS LOL. OK FIRST OFF, I HEAR OFTEN OF CHICKS CHANGING THERE SHAPE TO MATCH A PARTICULAR LOOK OR TO FIT INTO A CERTAIN OUTFIT. NOW ME? I BELIEVE THAT YOUR CLOTHES SHOULD BE MADE TO FIT YOU.... NOT YOU MADE TO FIT YOUR CLOTHES. I'M ONE WHOM REFUSE TO CHANGE EDIT OR FONDLE WITH MY SHAPE TO FIT ANYTHING. I CAN'T DO IT IN RL, AND I WON'T DO IT ON SL. (FASHION HAS NO SHORT CUTS.) SO I DECIDE TO STOP BY THE ALL SO FABULOUS EPOQUE AND I BOUGHT A FEW THINGS AND AMONG THOSE ITEMS WHERE THIS LOVELY NAVY BLUE JACKET AND OF COURSE I NEEDED TO GET THE BOOTS TO MATCH. NOW AS FAR AS THE BOOTS THERE REALLY DETAILED AND NICE BUT WARNING!! WARNING!! WARNING!! LADIES THESE BOOTS ARE NOT RESIZEABLE NOR MODIFIABLE. SO IF YOU ARE INDEED A THICK AVI LIKE MYSELF (OR JUST BADLY DAMN SHAPED) THESE BOOTS ARE SO GOING TO PISS YOU OFF. AFTER FIGHTING WITH THESE BOOTS FOR 2 HOURS TRYING TO MAKE MY OWN ALPHA FOR THEM I GOT FED UP AND DECIDED TO WHERE THEM WITH JEANS (TO HIDE THE FACT THAT THEY WERE NOT CONNECTED TO A PART OF MY ANKLE) BUT HEY THE END RESULTS WERE AWESOME JUST BEWARE IF YOU GET THESE AND YOUR NOT SMALL YOU WILL NOT WANT TO WEAR THEM WITH ANYTHING SHORT (UNLESS UR A FASHION RETARD.) ANY WHO THE JACKET WAS AMAZING AND LOOKING AT THE SCULPTIES YOU WOULD THINK I SPENT FOREVER GETTING THEM RIGHT BUT THEY WERE NEARLY A PERFECT FIT (MY HUSBAND LIKES MY BOOBIES JUICY SO I HAVE TO TAKE ANYTHING THAT BELONGS ON MY BUST AND MODIFY IT TO FIT. LOL)OH YEA AND BIG THANKS TO DELLYBEAN NORTH SHE MADE THE CLUTCH IM WEARING IN THIS LOOK SHES AMAZING YALL!! ANYWAY CHECK IT ALL OUT BELOW!! RATE, COMMENT, OR SUBSCRIBE TO KEEP THE UPGRADES COMING!!







SO DANGEROUS

TOP: Emery - Top Cut #Pure
JACKET: (epoque.s) Blazer Navy Blue
GLASSES: ROLE OPTIC SG-57 Gala v1.2
SKIN: :Hebenon Vial: Death of Baroque
HAIRBASE: DeeTaleZ shaved flowery
JEANS: (DeeTaleZ) Low rise Jeans bleached
SHOES: (epoque.s) Mesa Platforms - Navy
Earrings & Necklace: [ glow ] studio Pratis
NAILS: Mstyle Perfect Hand - Longest v1.2
RIGHT HAND RING: [MANDALA]KABUKI Ring/SILVER
CLUTCH: (Dellybeams Gem Gallery) Silver Glitter Clutch-F
Ring on left hand: JCNY Engravable Wedding Rings (Dr4zz I LOVE YOU BABY :P)

Poses in this photo are courtesy of TWISTED POSES owned and operated by Kitt Deluxe (THANKS A BUNCH HEFFA) and The Gifted Poses, owned and operated by Fashanstar Haiku (THANKS ALOT FOR YOUR SUPPORT GREEDY.) Graphics are courtesy of Obsession Graphix, Owned and operated by myself (Queentoy Cyberstar)


You've Officially been UpGraded *pops your collar*